Seo Min-jae (now Seo Eun-woo), a former participant of Channel A's "Heart Signal 3," expressed his stance once again regarding his ex-partner, A.
On the 27th, Seo Min-jae stated on his social media, "I have a baby, and after hearing the heartbeat, I couldn’t erase it." He further emphasized, "Although it is a life growing inside me, it is not a child made alone. The biological father must bear social and moral obligations, as this is a human duty."
He noted, "I have been ignored by the partner who betrayed all promises while pregnant and have been defamed and slandered through lawsuits that violated my dignity," adding, "Even so, as a mother, I am protecting this little life." He also claimed, "The biological father must take responsibility for the consequences of his actions and should not ignore the existence of the child."
Seo Min-jae also mentioned the false information spreading online concerning the pregnancy. He stated, "In the future, I will only highlight facts related to the biological father and will prevent the spread of false information regarding the pregnancy."
He continued, "A small number of people are anonymously threatening me to 'live quietly,' but I wonder who this advice is for," adding, "It is me and the child who suffer from the false information related to the pregnancy partner."
Meanwhile, Seo Min-jae revealed the pregnancy in May and posted details about her ex-boyfriend, A, on social media. Subsequently, A's side filed a lawsuit against Seo Min-jae for violating the Stalking Punishment Act, defamation, confinement, and assault. In response, Seo Min-jae's side refuted, stating, "A has blocked all communication except for an abstract statement that he would take legal responsibility after birth."
Full text of Seo Min-jae's social media post
I have a baby, and after hearing the heartbeat, I couldn’t erase it.
(This is a life, my child, and my body, yet those who say I should have an abortion must boldly clarify who they are and the qualifications they have to say such things.)
Although this is a life growing inside me, it is not a child made alone; saying a woman should just handle it alone is absurd and an ignorant statement. Regardless of one’s will, the biological father's obligation to take responsibility stems from being the 'biological father,' which is a social and moral duty, and it is the duty of 'humans' (even animals have their responsibilities). If that is not the case, then one cannot criticize parents who abandon their children because they don’t want to raise them or find them unsatisfactory.
I have been ignored by the partner who betrayed all promises while pregnant, degraded, and slandered through baseless lawsuits against me—an invasion of my dignity. I find this unbelievable reality very painful, yet as a mother, I am protecting this little life. Therefore, the biological father must not ignore the precious life as if it were a blemish on his life and must take responsibility for the consequences of his actions. Throwing a few tens of thousands of won for child support and feeling proud of fulfilling obligations (which, due to blocked communication, are not even promised and must be pursued through difficult lawsuits) should not allow one to ignore the existence of an illegitimate child (if the child seeks out the father, will it also file a lawsuit for stalking?).
A small number of people, relying on anonymity, threaten me to live quietly, but I wonder who they are doing this for. (If they feel burdened by unnecessary information, there is no need for them to bother searching my social media.) I want to be clear that the ones who suffer from false information related to the pregnancy partner are me and my child. Therefore, I will only highlight the 'facts' about my child and biological father from now on and will prevent the spreading of false information regarding the pregnancy (such as claiming that the pregnancy resulted from a casual encounter or that the biological father is uncertain).
Feeling the humiliation and despair from being betrayed by someone who made me trust them with sweet words and promises about the future, while I must endure all of this alone as a single mother raising a child,
why is there no respect for the person who must live such a life, and why is there no guilt for the biological father regarding the child who has been 'thoroughly abandoned' by him? Why is a free pass given?
It is an act of erasing two personalities and lives to abandon and attack a pregnant person and the child in this manner. (If one disagrees, they should at least experience what I or my child has gone through.)
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