Koyote's Shinji and her fiancé Moonwon spent an unprecedented two weeks of 'public scrutiny' leading up to their wedding. However, beyond the scrutiny, reckless invasions of privacy and speculation abound, causing concern.
The news of Shinji and Moonwon's marriage generated a wave of public reaction after the news of their wedding shoot emerged without any significant dating rumors. Moonwon, relatively less known to the public, has a divorce history and a daughter, which, alongside the revelation that Shinji was unaware of his past, led their marriage to be subjected to 'scrutiny' instead of congratulations. During this process, allegations arose, including violent accusations during Moonwon's military service, 'school bully' claims from his student days, rumors of premarital pregnancy with his ex-wife, and even unqualified real estate business allegations, escalating into an uncontrollable 'exposé war.'
Moonwon acknowledged some truths (such as the unqualified real estate business) and apologized, but the public's cold gaze continued. Some netizens' 'overstepping' beyond the 'public scrutiny' began to invade sensitive personal matters.
Particularly, on Shinji's social media account, comments referring to personal inheritance issues appeared, stating, "Shinji, make sure to sign a property agreement so that the money earned through hard work does not go to Moonwon's daughter." There were even comments questioning the very notion of marriage, saying, "Is it possible they will actually get married?" Despite the couple's explanations and apologies, the excessive interest and interference continue in a situation where marriage is a personal choice that should be celebrated.
Amidst the overwhelming attention, Shinji maintained a careful stance, alternating between silence and explanation. Shinji, appearing on KBS Cool FM's 'Park Myung-soo's Radio Show,' candidly expressed, "There was a long time when I thought I could not receive love from so many people. But while going through these events, I felt once again that I was receiving love from many." She apologized to the public, saying, "I feel sorry if I caused any discomfort." At the same time, she requested understanding by saying, "Please watch over the subsequent events with time."
She firmly drew the line on especially sensitive comments. Responding to inquiries about her daughter's inheritance or the marriage itself, Shinji consistently replied, "I politely decline comments unrelated to my feed," clearly stating that even as a celebrity, there should be a minimum boundary for personal privacy.
This illustrates the aspects of overstepping online and the hardships faced by celebrities. While public interest can sometimes be supportive, it serves as a warning message that, if uncontrolled, it can degenerate into reckless speculation and invasion of privacy. Moonwon underwent scrutiny through explanations and apologies, while Shinji expressed gratitude for the outpouring of concern and felt apologetic for the support. As the couple solidified their decision, it is time to respect the lives and boundaries of others, rather than spew irresponsible speculation and criticism under the guise of anonymity.
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