Oh Eun-young advised the wife of 'The Acting Couple' to stop drinking alcohol without exception.
On the broadcast of MBC 'Oh Eun-young Report - Marriage Hell' (hereinafter Marriage Hell) on the 2nd, the wife, who shows overflowing energy in front of her child but sinks endlessly into depression when alone, and her husband, who watches her, appeared as 'The Acting Couple'.
The wife explained her reasons, stating, 'I want to go back to the way things used to be.' The husband opposed the grants, saying, 'At first, I was uncomfortable with the part of our daily life being filmed. But more than discomfort, I decided to grant for my wife.'
In daily life, the wife lay down without even eating and shed tears after drinking alcohol. The wife said, 'I really don't know how to live. No one tells me.' The husband noted, 'It seems that my wife has been going to the hospital since March 2022. She has been diagnosed with depression and adult ADHD. At that time, I thought I was there for her as much as possible, but I realize that may not have seemed true from her perspective. I think I contributed to this situation.'
The wife told her husband that she was not in the mood to eat, saying, 'I only drank a little during the day.' Upon learning of the wife's drinking, the husband's expression grew stern. He stated, 'Her eyes look hazy, and she seems to be in a better mood and more upbeat than usual. When she said she drank, it made me a bit angry.'
After finishing a call with a friend, the wife went to the living room. She demanded that her husband make alcohol instead of food. The husband admitted he was angry at her. The wife said, 'Your conversations only have conclusions without questions. You don't ask me why I couldn't sleep or why I drank during the day. I didn’t get a prescription for sleeping pills because I might rely on them. Don't be curious about the reasons for my drinking.' Ultimately, the husband left the room.
In a situation where treatment is a priority, the wife said she drank alcohol all year. She explained, 'It's an excuse, but I feel calm when I drink.' Oh Eun-young asked, 'Why do you think you haven't cleaned the house?' and the wife replied, 'I think it's because I can't control my emotions.' Oh Eun-young then asked, 'Does that lead to self-blame?' and the wife said it has gradually become that way.
Oh Eun-young told the wife, 'I think it’s important to clean the house. For now, the 'Marriage Hell' team will help. When the house is organized, you will feel inclined to come out from the bedroom to the living room. Organizing your surroundings is the first step to organizing your mind. You really must not drink alcohol. The chances of a suicidal attempt increase when an individual suffering from depression consumes alcohol. You need to eliminate alcohol for your own sake.'
She then asked the husband, 'Do you want to divorce your wife?' The husband said he doesn't want a divorce, stating, 'I don't want to divorce because I love her.' Oh Eun-young advised the husband to express his feelings honestly.
Oh Eun-young asked the wife, 'Do you really want to divorce your husband?' and the wife replied no. Oh Eun-young added, 'For the wife, divorce is a sense of giving up. There is a lot of fear of rejection, so she leaves first. It’s painful.'
[Photo] MBC 'Oh Eun-young Report - Marriage Hell'
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