Dr. Oh Eun-young from 'My Precious Child' summoned the father with her precious prescription.
On the broadcast of Channel A's 'Recently Parenting - My Precious Child' on the 2nd, the story of the 'O siblings, living by the rule of hierarchy! The irregular O siblings' was revealed, featuring a working mother raising the O siblings while balancing her job.
The footage observed that day captured the third child who couldn't move in front of the first child, the top of the O siblings' hierarchy, but acted like a leader in front of the younger siblings. When the mother left the room, they exhibited aggressive behavior, yelling at the younger siblings and even hitting them. However, when the younger siblings cried, the third child forcibly hugged and comforted them, surprising everyone.
Dr. Oh Eun-young, seeing this, noted, "Children learn through imitation. Most of them follow what looks good, but encountering bad things continuously will inevitably seep in," analyzing that the third child imitates the first and comforts like their mother. She added that there is a need to firmly establish the roots of self-identity but suggested that the child might be experiencing confusion in the hierarchy.
Moreover, concerns arose as signs of potential childhood depression were observed in the third child. The third child, rather than mingling with friends at kindergarten, solely relied on and watched the teacher. When the teacher was absent, the child showed a sad expression, isolated, and Dr. Oh Eun-young mentioned, "There are concerns about childhood depression," noting a lack of attention and affection.
Amid this, the father of the O siblings, who had not appeared throughout the video, made an entrance. The mother of the precious child commented while eating with her husband, "When you take a break at home, you should change the kids' diapers or do something, but you don't. You just lie on the bed, right?"
However, the husband retorted, "If you ask me to change a diaper, I will do it. If you ask me to help, I help, right?" To this, the wife expressed her dissatisfaction with her passive husband, saying, "How can I tell you everything one by one?" The two then began to argue, as the conversation shifted suddenly to a blame game.
The husband said, "I still think I treat the kids well," but the wife replied, "Do you really think so? The kids always say that when you come home, you just play games," expressing her grievances. To this, the husband clarified, "I play games because I'm working and tired."
The more they talked, the more the husband and wife remained on parallel lines. Dr. Oh Eun-young, witnessing this, shared, "I realized there are many things that need to be resolved in a couple's relationship. It's really unfortunate, frustrating, and concerning. From each perspective, it makes sense, but what the mother demands from the father of the child is not just about sharing the labor."
She added, "Especially, the mother likely wanted to ask, 'How was your day?' or to express, 'Weren't you feeling tired today? How was the third child?' It seems that's not happening. And when talking, it centers around 'me,'" lamenting the situation.
Especially, the mother of the precious child answered through a sentence completion test that the person she dislikes is her husband and expressed that if she could be young again, she would not want to get married. The entire response was filled with resentment towards her husband and regret about the marriage. Consequently, Dr. Oh Eun-young declared with her precious prescription, "We need to have the father come here next week. That's the precious prescription."
Following that, a preview showed the father of the precious child appearing, grabbing attention. The father continuously made demands of his wife while showing no intention of getting out of bed. Dr. Oh Eun-young expressed her concern, saying, "I worry that obedience and domination starting from the father may become established."
[Photo] Captured from the broadcast screen of 'Recently Parenting - My Precious Child.'
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