Dancer Honey J expressed dissatisfaction with her husband, Jeong-dam.
On the 2nd, a video titled "Honey J's husband makes his first appearance, from the first meeting to fights" was uploaded to Honey J's YouTube channel.
That day, Honey J had a meal with her husband, Jeong-dam, and Jeong-dam's friend and model, Jeon Seung-hoon. The two shared their love story during the meal, and at that time, Jeong-dam asked, "But what do you say when your friends say, 'get married or not'?"
Honey J pressed, "I say to get married?" and asked, "Are you really told not to?" Jeong-dam candidly replied, "I speak realistically. If you want to live freely, don't get married, and if you want to live happily, I say to get married." Honey J then asked, "So do you regret it now?" to which Jeong-dam said, "But isn't it right to not get married if freedom itself is what makes you happy?"
Then Honey J stated, "There is a happiness greater than freedom. Like stability or having someone on your side, creating a family, these are different kinds of happiness than freedom. But you won't know that unless you experience it," while pressing further, "Do you regret it?" Jeong-dam replied, "I don't regret it." Honey J exclaimed, "Then tell me the good points!" and Jeong-dam stammered, "The good points of marriage? It's just the same as what you just said."
Honey J kept reiterating, "Express your thoughts," but Jeong-dam ultimately couldn't answer, which angered Honey J. He asked, "You married because you love me, right? Then how great is it that I can be paired with and play with the person I love for life?" while making Honey J laugh by not empathizing.
Jeon Seung-hoon expressed concern, asking, "Is it okay to do this and go home?" Jeong-dam replied, "We'll definitely end up fighting right afterwards." Honey J then shockingly confessed, "But there is that. If we didn't have love, we would have broken up already with what we discussed." Jeong-dam immediately agreed, saying, "That is a fact," and Honey J remarked, "I think if we had only dated, we would have broken up."
Jeong-dam nodded and said, "Absolutely," adding, "We fought a lot when we were dating. We raised our voices many times." Honey J confessed, "I was so angry after a fight that I just turned around and walked home. But he kept chasing after me. I thought he would come after me and say, 'I'm sorry. Don't be mad,' just like in a movie. But he just kept following me. Then he suddenly yelled, 'Go slowly.' So I told him not to follow me, feeling irritated. He followed me all the way home. We made up, but we had a serious fight then. I think we fought a lot more after marriage than during our relationship."
Honey J felt disappointed, saying, "But he doesn't drink with me," after hearing about an episode where Jeong-dam had drinks with his friends. Jeong-dam explained, "That has changed. At that time, I was focusing on work overseas, so my focus was on that. When I come to Korea, it's time for management. The pattern is set up like this for management, so it doesn't match."
Honey J insisted, "Seung-hoon is a friend, and I'm the wife. Shouldn't there be time for me too? There's so much work to do. After finishing that work, I want to spend the remaining time playing with you. I want to go on dates. And I usually don't drink much. But if it seems like we haven't talked lately, I deliberately suggest we drink because we can have honest discussions and spend that time together. Even though I'm someone who doesn't drink, I purposely suggest drinking to you, but you never agree. And being busier is your own choice, so I'm always left out of that choice. Why is that?"
A flustered Jeong-dam changed the subject, saying, "Don't you know? What's wrong?" and explained, "It is true that the times don't match. I can't completely match my pattern to yours. I have my own life. It doesn't match, so that's why." He added, "It's a big deal. I need to bring Love home early today," expressing concern while noting, "But there is that. I've been alone all this time. I learned to do everything by myself, being alone for so long. If I think differently, another advantage is that I can cook my own meals, work out independently, and manage my time on my own, which is pretty nice."
However, Honey J shared, "In the morning, he eats alone without even asking. But there was one time when my mom was home, and I was so tired that if he got up and ate alone, I would understand that. But I was awake at that time, and he ate cereal with milk without asking. I found that a bit disappointing and absurd. When I said, 'I'm also hungry,' he bluntly responded, 'You should eat too.' He ate alone and went up. It was absurd, and I felt awkward to say anything about it. So, I just had breakfast alone. My mom saw it and asked, 'Are you both having separate meals? Why are you eating apart?"
Jeong-dam felt wronged, saying, "I have never once asked for you to prepare my breakfast after we got married," but Honey J pointed out, "Even if I do, you won't eat." Jeong-dam asked, "Do you want me to? Do you like it when I ask what to make for breakfast?" Honey J responded, "I could do it if I wanted to," and expressed that "You have many grievances as a member of the household, and I have many grievances as a woman." Jeon Seung-hoon, watching them, appeared flustered as he tried to mediate between the two.
Meanwhile, Honey J married Jeong-dam, a designer who is a year younger, in November 2022. Upon announcing their marriage, she also revealed news of her premarital pregnancy, and in April 2023, she welcomed their first daughter, Love (nickname), receiving many congratulations.
[Photo] Honey J's YouTube, SNS
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