'When Transfer Love 2' Seong Hae-eun shared her candid thoughts on love.
On the 2nd, a video titled "A Gathering of Those Crazy in Love" was uploaded to the 'Happy Hae-eun' channel.
That day, Seong Hae-eun spent time drinking with friends while advising her followers on their love dilemmas. She asked Yoonjo, "You are the only one who is married, a married woman. You have been dating for about 6 years, and your boyfriend wants to get married, but I have no thoughts of marriage. Is it okay to continue this relationship?" Yoonjo replied, "No. I think it should be done with mutual agreement; breaking up quickly would be the right answer for that person."
Seong Hae-eun wondered, "Is it possible to date without thinking about marriage after dating for about 6 years? Is it because the love is less or due to environmental issues?" Yoonjo responded, "(Kim Dong-ho) was originally a non-marriage advocate, but I pulled him along. Someone has to lead the way," and asked, "What is your priority when dating?"
In response, Seong Hae-eun said, "I inevitably fall in love. I hope my work and love coexist healthily, but I feel like when I’m in love, my mind gets clouded. I should be moving forward, but I'm only focused on this person. We should walk side by side, but I believe it's better to have a relationship where we are looking ahead rather than face-to-face, yet inevitably I end up tripping over. So I need to meet someone solid (to hold me up)," adding, "But right now, I have no thoughts of marriage. Then, do you think there is a type of man that a married woman should meet? Some say you must marry a good person, and that men must be kind. What do you think? What kind of person do you recommend, sister?"
Yoonjo said, "It’s right to date a good person. But rather than just kind, I think it’s better to be with someone broad-minded, someone who is understanding and has a wide capacity." She added, "I think I need someone who can understand at least this much. Because just being infinitely kind might result in me getting upset. It’s better to meet a man with deep understanding. Oppa treats me like a father raising a daughter. That's the way it should be," she said.
When told by a friend that her boyfriend treats him like a son, she said, "That's the worst. Can't you please break up?" saying, "He comes to my house crying, feeling sick" and went on, "It would be fine to not see each other; it would be fine to break up, but that’s just not possible," expressing her frustration. Seong Hae-eun said, "It doesn't go as you want. That’s love, which is not easy to control," and Yoonjo responded, "I've been through exactly this kind of dating, so I sift through these kinds of men, and then I see Oppa and think how wonderful he is, and that’s how it starts,” while saying, "So, Hae-eun!" she pushed Seong Hae-eun.
As the conversation continued about 'When Life Gives You Tangerines', she said, "I felt sad when IU and Young-beom broke up. It’s an unavoidable breakup, isn’t it? How heartbreaking is that? They dated for 7 years. After dating for 7 years, how difficult is it to break up? It took me a whole year just to breakup. That was very relatable. Breaking up doesn’t happen mechanically or as if cutting with scissors. Connections don’t easily sever. How painful is an unavoidable breakup?" she reflected.
Yoonjo, while subtly handing her a tissue, shared, "This sense is good. I like this kind of man. I also think so. I hope his eyes are only on me, his ears too," revealing her ideal type. Yoonjo said, "An A to Z relationship where everything has to be told is the worst." Seong Hae-eun agreed, saying, "It’s the worst. Having to be told is frustrating, but even if you’re told, they can’t adapt. Those kinds of people can't adapt at all," she vented. Yoonjo added, "That’s lacking in sense. A man without sense is the worst," to which Seong Hae-eun affirmed, "It’s the worst. So men have to mature."
Meanwhile, Seong Hae-eun noted, "Those wanting handsome men should stop. They said it’s all about looks," attracting attention. Yoonjo commented, "When you’re fighting, it’s said that you get less angry with good-looking men and more angry with ugly ones," and Seong Hae-eun replied, "I don’t know. Is that really true? I can't tell at all. My friend is going on a blind date, and she hopes he’s good-looking. She said don't expect looks at all," sharing her thoughts.
He emphasized, "There’s a high probability that looks matter no matter what happens." Yoonjo remarked, "Even ugly ones are like that. It’s the same. Wouldn’t a good-looking guy be better than an ugly one? If a good-looking guy cheats, you'd think, ‘Oh, he’s just using his looks,’ but if an ugly guy cheats, wouldn’t you get even angrier? What, that guy cheated with that face? Can you believe it?" trying to persuade her, which made them laugh.
Additionally, discussing the case of a boyfriend who views provocative accounts on social media, Seong Hae-eun said, "I believe that if there’s anything questionable while in a fling, it shouldn't exist. If there are provocative women following him, he should be filtered out." Yoonjo questioned, "But is there really someone who does that? On a public account?" Seong Hae-eun insisted, "There is!"
Yoonjo recounted, "My ex-boyfriend had a ton of friends. He was very sociable. But that is really exhausting. Guys with lots of friends prioritize friends over their girlfriends. If that’s the case, then why date at all?" Seong Hae-eun replied, "If that’s the case, why not marry a friend? All those people are unnecessary. They are truly meaningless and worthless relationships. It’s foolish to think they’re good. A man with too many friends is absolutely a no-go. Unless it’s a situation unavoidable for work," she said decisively.
Meanwhile, Seong Hae-eun gained attention for her appearance on 'When Transfer Love 2', and she became a couple with Jeong Hyun-kyu. However, recently, they sparked breakup rumors as they deleted each other's posts on social media. Nevertheless, the two have not clarified their stance regarding the breakup rumors.
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